Praying in Hard Times
By Matthew Malysa

Sunday has come again and the traffic jam has started in the parking lot as more and more cars begin to flood in like at a fast food restaurant during lunchtime. However, you won’t see any obscene gestures or hear any beeping here, because this patch of dirt is God’s parking lot and the people here know better than to disrespect this ground.

It is well known that people tend to grasp hold of their faith during tough times, though maybe none as hard as the devoted congregation of the Holy Rosary Parish in Passaic, New Jersey. This predominantly Polish parish is one of the few spiritual strongholds for the thousands of Roman Catholic Poles in the surrounding,  immigrant-filled townships of Wallington, Garfield, and Lodi.

It is in this building where they gather and worship at a mass spoken in their native tongue. It is something that means a lot to people like 23-year-old Grzegorz Klecha who has been attending this church since he and his family immigrated to the United States in 1998. “Our church means a lot to my family, especially to my parents who don’t understand English as well as my brothers and sister,” said Klecha.

As the well-dressed and well-groomed parishioners enter their golden house of worship, they split down the aisles like rainwater through a duct. Each family quickly finds their own respective pew, claiming it as their own. They have come early and are rewarded with the privilege of sitting and kneeling during today’s mass. Those who arrive late are forced to stand in the back and think about what they have done in traditional Catholic fashion.

All sit quietly; there are only a few whispers here and there. In one of the middle aisles, a father can be seen scolding his sons for their horseplay, while not more then two pews behind them, a mother tries to quiet her baby and it’s echoing cries. Everyone else sits without movement, solemnly reflecting on whatever is going on in their lives. If they were painted the right shade of gray, one wouldn’t be able to distinguish their grave faces from the biblical statues on the walls around them.

Suddenly, the silence is drowned out by the loud playing of the organs located at the rear of the church. All awake from their somber mediation and unfortunately for the young mother, her child is no exception. All rise as the priests and altar boys enter.

As mass gets underway, the people stand, sit, and kneel in unison. One can’t help but notice how rehearsed their movements look. It doesn’t seem as if anyone here has missed a mass in quite some time.

It is no secret that recently jobs have been scarce, and that these are working-class people commonly associated with the construction trade and domestic work. However, you would not be able to tell it here. The men are dressed in button up shirts and dress pants as if they were heading towards some sort of interview, while the women are decked out in various dresses and semi-formal attire. It is apparent that while people may be hurting at the moment, they refuse to let their ongoing struggles get in the way of their daily lives and virtues.

“I don’t think this shift in the economy has changed the percentage of people attending mass,” says Father Grzegorz Golba. “Their faith is what brings them here. However, there are many more people praying for better jobs and for the economy to pick up as of lately.”

Though many of the parishioners may not know one another personally, in this church none of that seems to matter. They did not come here to see one another. They came to pay respect to something greater than themselves and to pray for their friends and families.

For a community of immigrants, this place is more than just a taste of home. It is an institution that helps guide them through their daily lives and tribulations. It is an irreplaceable pillar of this community that symbolizes its people’s unrelenting strength and unwillingness to give up in their pursuit of happiness. 

Though their lives may or may not all be in turmoil right now, this congregation continues their weekly rituals the way they carry on their daily lives, with hearts open and eyes focused on the future. During these hard economic times, when so many have lost their jobs and struggle to make ends meet, its nice to know people still have their faith to get them through.

Matthew Malysa is a Rutgers-Newark student. Posted September 2009.